The Energetic Contracts With Your Parents — and Why You Chose Them
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The Energetic Contracts With Your Parents — and Why You Chose Them

4 min read·Illaripa Lupa Hake

The energetic contracts with your parents are the themes you wish to resolve in this life. That is why you chose them as your parents. When energetic contracts exist, there are connections between your chakras and the chakras of your parents. These contracts want first to be recognized before they can dissolve.

Often they accompany us across several lifetimes. If you are reading these words right now, it may mean that you have already walked part of your path. Now only a portion of this energy is waiting to be freed by you — and by your parents as well. ## The Guilty Conscience Is No Accident Do you know that feeling when you think of your parents — and a guilty conscience immediately appears? Or when you feel responsible for them: for their mood, their health, their life?

That is no accidental feeling. The guilty conscience you feel toward your parents is often a sign that a contract is still active. Especially when you feel responsible for them: that is precisely what reminds you of what still wants to heal in you. Energetic contracts also show up as resentment, helplessness, or inner tension, especially when you meet your parents directly.

These feelings are not a failure. They are a sign. Do you sometimes ask yourself why certain themes with your parents never truly dissolve? Why you are exhausted after a conversation with them, even though nothing bad was said? ## How Contracts Dissolve — There Are Many Ways There is not one single way to release energetic contracts.

There are many. And each person finds the one that suits him. With the elements of nature: Rituals with flowers, with water, or with fire are ancient methods for clearing energetic bonds. The fire transforms, the water clarifies.

With flowers we work out the intention — what should stay, what may go. With the energies of the year: Full moons and new moons are special moments for this work. Every full moon carries a different energy that addresses certain contracts especially directly. Solstices and other times in the cycle of the year also open spaces that otherwise do not open so easily.

At special places in nature: Sometimes a place is needed. A cave, an ancient forest, a place of power. There, in silence and with a clear ritual, something can dissolve that finds no room in daily life. Nature itself becomes the witness of the work.

In Andean energy medicine there are concrete methods for each of these ways. You can recognize which contract exists, what task it holds, on which energetic level it sits, and with which element it is best addressed. ## What Remains Afterward One of the deepest emotional liberations I know is to release these contracts with your father and your mother. Not because it is the hardest, but because it is the most fundamental. When these connections clarify, something changes in the way you perceive yourself — in relationships, in work, in the body.

The rituals of the Andes help us in this. They are made for exactly this work. What was heavy before becomes wisdom. It becomes your medicine — and a lightness you no longer have to explain.

In this way a turning point arises between your ancestors and your descendants. This change you carry onward — not as a story, but as free energy. ## In the Training You Learn How This Works If you wish not only to know these rituals but to apply them yourself — for you, and one day for others — then the training in Andean energy medicine is the next step. For nine months you learn rituals with the elements: flowers, water, fire. You learn to work with the energy of the full moon and the new moon, and how to open a space at a place of power in nature where contracts truly dissolve.

You learn to recognize energetic contracts, name them, and release them layer by layer — not only your own. What you learn there, you carry onward. In your family, in your lineage, in what comes after you.

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